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Dates de tournée de Noël parisiennes

2023-11-23T15:47:30+00:00

A l’occasion de ma tournée à de fin d’année, j’ouvre mon agenda de jeux aux plus téméraires d’entre vous.

Au programme, bondage et Shibari pour les amateurs de restriction mais également jeux d’exploration anale, de fétichisme, déprivation sensorielle, impact comme vous les aimez tant, uniquement si je suis satisfaite de votre servitude…

Les débutants sont également les bienvenus, lors d’une séance de découverte ou de social time, durant laquelle je serai ravie de vous partager mon expérience.

Pour rappel, l’ensemble de mes pratiques et surtout de mes limites ne sont pas négociables. Lorsque l’on fait preuve d’éducation et de de bienséance, on ne force jamais une Dame à vous rencontrer: rien n’est encore plus nécessaire dans une relations D/s afin d’en faire émerger une énergie authentique.

Comme à mon habitude, je vais vous dresser à devenir les meilleurs éléments de mon cheptel, sans aucune pitié…

Excellente servitude à tous.tes

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Dates de tournée de Noël parisiennes2023-11-23T15:47:30+00:00

The importance of subs training

2023-11-06T07:12:38+00:00

When it comes to building strong, lasting D/s relationships, slave training is a powerful and necessary tool that should never be overlooked.

Within a meaningful D/s relationships, slave training is a crucial tool of the bond to improve each party commitment and connect the trainer (D) and the trainee (s). In this blog post, we’ll explore the numerous benefits of educating your subs and how it can lead to greater satisfaction, trust, and success in your professional Domme life.

Informed Decision-Making

One of the key advantages of slave training is the ability to empower them to make informed decisions. When clients understand the intricacies of a product, service, or process, they are better equipped to weigh their options and choose the best course of action.

Building Trust and Credibility

Transparency and expertise go hand-in-hand. By taking the time to educate your subs, you demonstrate a commitment to honesty and integrity. This, in turn, builds trust and credibility, which are essential foundations for a fruitful business relationship.

Managing Expectations

Clear communication about what can realistically be achieved is crucial. Educating honest subs helps set realistic expectations, ensuring they have a clear understanding of what is possible and what may not be feasible within a given scope. That’s teh resaon why setting up boundaries and limits are crucial.

Empowerment

Knowledge is power, and by sharing your expertise, you empower your subs to actively participate in the decision-making process. This sense of ownership can lead to greater satisfaction and a more fulfilling slave experience.

Problem Prevention

Prevention is often more effective than remedy. By educating subs about potential challenges, risks, and best practices, you can proactively address issues before they arise. This saves both parties time, money, and resources in the long run.

Reducing Miscommunications

Clear communication is the cornerstone of any successful professional relationship. Educating subs ensures that both parties are on the same page, minimizing the likelihood of misunderstandings and misinterpretations.

Enhancing Customer Satisfaction

A well-informed client is a happy sub. When subs feel supported and knowledgeable, they are more likely to please with their experience. This can lead to positive reviews, referrals, and long-term relationships.

Personal and professional Development

So why slave training is so important? When it comes to meaningful D/s relationships, slave training is a crucial tool to improve each party commitment. Education is an ongoing journey, and subs may benefit from continuous learning and updates. Providing valuable insights about their personality, kinks, or specific needs can contribute to their personal and professional growth and success.

Compliance and Legal Considerations

Depending on your industry, there may be legal or regulatory requirements for providing specific information to subs, especially regarding blackmail and public humiliation. Educating them not only fulfills these obligations but also demonstrates your commitment to compliance and ethical practices.

Creating Value

Beyond delivering a product or service, providing education can be seen as an additional service or value-add. It showcases your dedication to your clients’ success and well-being, further solidifying the trust and rapport between you.

In conclusion, educating slaves as a Dominatrix is not just a nice-to-have—it’s a fundamental aspect of building strong, mutually beneficial D/S relationships. It fosters trust, enables informed decision-making, and contributes to the overall success and satisfaction of both parties involved. So, make education a priority in your client interactions, and watch your professional endeavors thrive.

Remember, the key to effective subs training is to tailor it to their specific needs and preferences. By doing so, you’ll not only provide valuable insights but also demonstrate your commitment to their success.

The importance of subs training2023-11-06T07:12:38+00:00

My body, my rules

2023-11-23T17:02:52+00:00

In a BDSM context, it’s crucial to prioritize safety, consent, and respect for all parties involved.

Any request that goes against these principles or involves non-consensual activities would be considered highly inappropriate and potentially harmful.

Some examples of worst requests in a BDSM context

1. Non-Consensual Activities: Any request for activities that are not negotiated or agreed upon by all parties involved. Consent is the cornerstone of BDSM play.

2. Ignoring Safe Words: Disregarding or pressuring someone to ignore their safe word, which is a clear violation of consent and can lead to dangerous situations.

3. Extreme or Dangerous Play Without Proper Preparation: Requests for activities that are inherently dangerous or require specialized knowledge without proper training or understanding of the risks involved.

Don’t cross limits and boundaries

4. Ignoring Limits: Disregarding established limits, which are boundaries set by participants to ensure their physical and emotional well-being.

5. Public Exposure Without Consent: Requesting or pressuring someone to engage in public play or exposure without their explicit consent. Thus, this type of scene would affect minors in a public space: be very careful about it!

6. Financial Exploitation: Demanding or pressuring someone to provide financial support or resources in a way that is exploitative or manipulative. Althought Findom games seem to be a new online trend, setting up clear limits is always mandatory.

7. Ignoring Aftercare: Neglecting the importance of aftercare, which is the process of tending to the physical and emotional needs of participants after a BDSM scene.

8. Ignoring Negotiated Roles: disregarding previously negotiated roles or dynamics within a BDSM relationship.

Listen to your partner with respect and attention

9. Pushing Unwanted Fetishes or Activities: pressuring someone to engage in specific fetishes or activities that they have explicitly stated they are not comfortable with.

10. Engaging with Minors or Non-Consenting Parties: any request or action that involves minors or individuals who are not able to give informed, legal consent. I received a lot of requests from online subs who want me to insult some family members or even their own wife: understand that humiliating someone who isn’t aware is basically mean and turns me off for real.

It is essential for all participants in BDSM activities to communicate openly, establish clear boundaries, and prioritize the well-being of everyone involved.

If a request goes against these principles, it should be firmly rejected. Always remember that safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) or risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) are fundamental principles in BDSM play.

Note that I offer my personal guidance and coaching in order to become a more aware and responsible kinkster. Feel freel to drop me a message to go through a personal consultancy session.

My body, my rules2023-11-23T17:02:52+00:00

Ms Sasha’s portrait for TDS club blog

2022-06-05T19:47:41+00:00

I was honored to be contacted on Instagram for an interview for the TDS club blog .

As you know, sex work is still an occupancy and we shouln’t feel ashamed about who we are, what we do and why we love this job.

As I have explained in this interview, my practice is based on listening to my subs’ kinks, their dark side and support them to go deeper in the exploration of their perversion.

You can read the full interview in French only here below.

Ms Sasha’s portrait for TDS club blog2022-06-05T19:47:41+00:00
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